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"Romance is completely dead, and it's the girls' fault," says Alex, 25.
"They act like all they want is sex and then they yell at you for not wanting to have a relationship.
Below are is an abbreviated list of 20 key “questions” adapted from the Sex and Love Addicts literature that might help a woman self-determine if she has this type of problem.
More about SLAA can be found at: I a female sex and love addict? Do you feel that your life is becoming or is unmanageable because of your sexual and/or romantic behavior or your excessive dependency needs? Do you find yourself unable to stop seeing a specific person even though you know that seeing this person is destructive to you? Do you feel that you don’t want anyone to know about your sexual or romantic activities?
In terms of risk taking and out-of-control behavior, female sex addicts are very similar to male sex addicts. presented for treatment in an acute crisis when her husband Jeff learned about her having multiple affairs and was threatened to leave unless she got help.
Mary is 38 years old with two children ages 4 and 7.
Do you feel you need to hide these activities from others – friends, family, co-workers, counselors, etc.? Do you get “high” from sex and/or romance and then crash when the act or experience is over? Have you had sex at inappropriate times, in inappropriate places, and/or with inappropriate people? Do you make promises to yourself or rules for yourself concerning your sexual or romantic behavior that you find you cannot follow? Have you had or do you have sex with someone you don’t (didn’t) want to have sex with? Have you ever thought that there might be more you could do with your life if you were not so driven by sexual and romantic pursuits? Do you feel desperate about your need for a lover, sexual fix, or future mate? Have you or do you have sex regardless of the consequences (e.g.
the threat of being caught, the risk of contracting herpes, gonorrhea, AIDS, etc.)? Do you find that you have a pattern of repeating bad relationships? Do you feel like a lifeless puppet unless there is someone around with whom you can flirt?
Men cheating on their wives, men seeing prostitutes, men going to strip clubs, massage parlours and of course, male politicians sexting online.
The news media gives endless examples of famous husbands who betray their wives in ways that often result in public humiliation for them both (Clinton, Sanford, Tiger, Weiner, etc.).
But what about women who ‘act out’ with sex and romance?
Does this mean that there are no female sex addicts?
If there are women out there who are acting out with sex, where are they and why don’t we hear more about them?